Funeral tribute
Funeral Pillows and Cushions
Funeral pillows and cushions are floral tributes shaped like a pillow or a square cushion, made from flowers massed on a shaped base. Their symbolism is gentle and easily understood: they represent rest, comfort, and peaceful sleep, which makes them one of the most consoling tributes a family can choose.
The two shapes are close relatives. A cushion is square, while a pillow is rectangular with slightly gathered, pillow-like corners. Both are traditionally based in white chrysanthemums with a spray of roses, carnations, or seasonal flowers across one corner, often finished with ribbon edging.
Pillows and cushions are most often sent by close family, and are a popular choice from grandchildren to a grandparent. Smaller cushions also suit friends who want something more substantial than a posy but less formal than a wreath.
These tributes are frequently laid on the grave after a burial, where their low, solid shape sits well. Florists deliver them to the funeral director ahead of the service in the usual way.
When to Choose Funeral Pillows and Cushions
- A pillow or cushion is appropriate from close family and is an especially traditional choice from grandchildren.
- The shape suits burials particularly well, as it can be laid on the grave as a lasting graveside tribute.
- Its symbolism of rest fits any service, religious or non-religious, cremation or burial.
- A small cushion is a thoughtful middle option for friends who feel a posy is too modest but a wreath too formal.
Typical Price Range
£60–£150 depending on size, flowers, and florist
Prices vary by florist, flowers chosen, and size of arrangement.
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Frequently asked questions
What do funeral pillows and cushions symbolise?
They represent rest, peace, and comfort, the idea of a loved one being laid gently to sleep. This quiet symbolism is why they are so often chosen by close family members.
What is the difference between a funeral pillow and a cushion?
A cushion is square and a pillow is rectangular with softly gathered corners. They are made the same way and carry the same meaning, so the choice is simply a matter of preference and budget.
What sizes do pillow and cushion tributes come in?
Cushions typically range from 12 to 18 inches square, and pillows from about 18 to 24 inches long. Larger sizes carry more flowers and sit more prominently among the other tributes.
Can a pillow tribute be left at the graveside?
Yes, and this is one of the most common uses. Its low, stable shape means it can be laid flat on the grave after burial, where it remains as a tribute in the days after the funeral.
How do I order a pillow or cushion for a funeral?
Contact a local florist with the deceased's name, the funeral director's details, and the service date. Most florists ask for at least 24 to 48 hours' notice.