Funeral tribute
Funeral Posies
A funeral posy is a small, rounded arrangement of flowers, usually hand-tied or set into a low dome of florist's foam. It is one of the simplest and most affordable funeral tributes in the UK, saying something gentle and sincere without drawing attention to itself.
Posies are often chosen by friends, neighbours, colleagues, and more distant relatives who want to pay their respects without sending a large formal piece. Children and grandchildren also often give them, as the small scale feels personal.
Most florists offer posies in soft, traditional colours, whites, creams, and pastels, but they can be made in any palette, including the favourite colours of the person who has died. Seasonal British flowers such as roses, freesias, spray chrysanthemums, and stocks are typical.
Florists routinely deliver posies to the funeral director's premises before the service. Afterwards, a posy is small enough to be taken home by a family member or laid at the graveside.
When to Choose Funeral Posies
- A posy suits almost any funeral, religious or non-religious, burial or cremation, because of its simple and unassuming form.
- It is a fitting choice for friends, neighbours, and colleagues who are not part of the immediate family.
- Posies work well when several people want to contribute separate tributes without overwhelming the service with large arrangements.
- They are also appropriate when the family has asked for 'family flowers only' to be kept modest, provided you check the family's wishes first.
Typical Price Range
£25–£60 depending on size, flowers, and florist
Prices vary by florist, flowers chosen, and size of arrangement.
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Frequently asked questions
How big is a funeral posy?
Most posies are between 10 and 14 inches across. They are designed to sit flat or in a low dome, so they display neatly beside larger tributes or on top of the coffin if the family wishes.
Who normally sends a posy to a funeral?
Posies are most often sent by friends, neighbours, work colleagues, and extended family. Immediate family members usually choose larger pieces such as sprays or wreaths, though there is no fixed rule.
How is a posy delivered for the funeral?
Give the florist the name of the deceased, the funeral director, and the date of the service. The florist delivers the posy in good time, and it travels with the coffin to the service.
Can I include a message with a posy?
Yes. Almost all florists attach a small card to the tribute. Keep the message short and personal, the cards are collected after the service and given to the family.
What happens to a posy after the service?
At a burial it can be laid on or beside the grave. At a crematorium, tributes are usually displayed in a flower court or garden of remembrance for a few days, or a family member can take the posy home.
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